I work with individuals who have hit a substantial crossroads in their career, business, or life, they are looking for more meaning in their work or lives. People who know things need to change and don’t necessarily know what that looks like. Funnily enough, the niche chose me as that was where I was when I signed up for the Introduction to Life Coaching course and where many of my friends and family were as I went through my training.
I was invited to join the second cohort of trainee volunteers, having previously expressed an interest in being a mentor.
I love mentoring - sharing my knowledge, skills and experience - and helping others find their way through the programme and what they may want to do after; especially as my path through the course was not straightforward. I had a 2-year plan to complete my qualification and set up my business and, as for many participants, life got in the way and it took a lot longer.
For me, the most rewarding part of mentoring is being able to re-assure course participants and encourage people to step back and enjoy it. It's so easy to get caught up in the process and allow our inner critic to get in our way.
No matter what kind of day I have had I always enjoy talking with so many interesting and wonderful people doing the course.
I mentored someone who, like me, had signed up with great enthusiasm but, for whom, life had got in the way; and while they were trying to get back on track, they were finding it extremely difficult and were seriously considering giving up. The mentor session helped them reconnect with what had inspired them in the first place, overcome the overwhelm and make a plan to complete it; made up of small achievable actions.
The definition of success is so personal and is so different for everyone. I like this quote by Maya Angelou: ‘Success is liking who you are, liking what you do and liking how you do it.’.
I’m interested when people are studying coaching with no intention of setting up in business, they want to add coaching skills to their overall skillset.
"Ditch the perfectionism (it’s a means to procrastination), step back and enjoy it all for the wonderful journey it will be and continues to be."
Go for it. Don’t worry about not being good enough or not getting it absolutely right. Be open, be curious, be kind to yourself and enjoy it for the amazing learning curve it will be.
Ditch the perfectionism (it’s a means to procrastination), step back and enjoy it all for the wonderful journey it will be and continues to be. Oh and, if you want to set up in business, do a business plan and regularly review it.
‘It is never too late to be what you might have been.’ George Eliot
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